Long overdue update

As i was 'prettifying' this blog, i thought i ought to update some content also, it is long overdue.

This blog was initially a vehicle to communicate with friends about my health issues, whilst removing some of the awkwardness and energy sapping rambling explanations. I found it nurtured a degree of silent understanding and unquestioning acceptance, that i hadn't experienced before. I know people read it, and never said another word. Since I was told (on Christmas Eve!) that i didn't need to be listed for transplant yet I have been riding a rollercoaster of emotions. I found myself despairing at being told I wasn't going to be listed, in contrast to my family's happy delirium. This may, to many, appear ungrateful, confused and an altogether odd response. In my defence, I have been assured I am not the only one to have reacted like this.

I felt that being told i was 'too well' to be listed was cruel, and left me hanging. Holding onto the thought of transplant assessment, and the process and support network which surrounds it, had been what i had been holding onto for some time. The process of being referred for the transplant assessment took almost a year from when it was first mentioned, and as time went on it became more and more consuming.
Having this outcome sprung upon me, after such a build up felt like having my hand-rail removed whilst i'm still unsteady.
I feel this has been something of a guilty secret since i received the outcome, as those friends who are involved in the transplant world and are desperately, torturously waiting for their call will feel they would do anything to be in my position and be 'too well'; and outsiders from this strange and surreal world appear to see it as an 'all clear', rather than a delaying of the almost inevitable.

To be continued...